I don't deserve this.

by Holly✿ Tue Aug 06, 2013 2:53 pm

Hi guys well i'm really depressed now :(Well it's my BFF, she says she trusts me and stuff and we are BFFs forever but she keeps on going to my other friends and starts to whisper about me :(Then she says she's on my side. Should I trust her? I told her one of my most important secrets before. Also she keeps on dragging me in the school drama that I don't want to be involved with and people keep on saying i'm the rude person :(I can't be myself I have to be popular and stuff :(I don't want to deal with this anymore :(I wished if it could stop.. I'm sorry if I did do anything wrong i'm sorry it's just that I don't deserve this Sad

Then would people keep on black mailing me and bullying me if I said I like mlp or something D:

by Guest Tue Aug 06, 2013 3:12 pm

You shouldn't trust her. If people like her talk behind your back, then form your own group. I was once like this in elementary school, but now I'm pretty popular. So my supposed friend were gossiping untrue stuff about me, and I just had it. I told them I wouldn't be their friend anymore and I just left them. Try to cut communication lines with those people. Tell her that nobody trusts fickle people (fickle means people that keep changing sides). Tell your other friends that your "BFF" is spreading lies about you and tell them that you've had it.

Another thing that you should do is that you should tell a parent or guardian. This always help because they can help you with your problems. You should talk to your guidance counselor or principal (if this is a school issue). If this isn't a school issue, then talk to your guidance counselor, your BFF's parents, your parents/guardians, or somebody that you trust (not online though, talk to them in person).

by **Britney** Tue Aug 06, 2013 5:03 pm

❥cℓαιяє- wrote:You shouldn't trust her. If people like her talk behind your back, then form your own group. I was once like this in elementary school, but now I'm pretty popular. So my supposed friend were gossiping untrue stuff about me, and I just had it. I told them I wouldn't be their friend anymore and I just left them. Try to cut communication lines with those people. Tell her that nobody trusts fickle people (fickle means people that keep changing sides). Tell your other friends that your "BFF" is spreading lies about you and tell them that you've had it.

Another thing that you should do is that you should tell a parent or guardian. This always help because they can help you with your problems. You should talk to your guidance counselor or principal (if this is a school issue). If this isn't a school issue, then talk to your guidance counselor, your BFF's parents, your parents/guardians, or somebody that you trust (not online though, talk to them in person).

Thx for the advice Smile

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I have a friend like that, she's really rude though

by ∞αмσ∞ Tue Aug 06, 2013 5:17 pm

You should give it time and maybe she will realise how good a friend you are and respect you and all if this doesn't work maybe you should talk to her over it and maybe she will understand?