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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 12:58 am

Hey guys! This is going to be an advice column by me. Basically what i'm going to be doing is giving advice to you guys about stuff going on in life, which you can PM me about if you don't feel comfortable posting it. Or just some advices with friends, or stuff going on that you just need someone to talk to about. It can be either stuff on bearville or in life, but just nothing too personal, like that gives out personal information. But I'll be happy to help you with whatever problems you are facing and need help with. I'm always here to help people. But like i said, if you need help with something or advice with something personal going on, like parent issues, and you don't feel comfortable sharing that i'm totally okay with it. But if you do need someone to talk to that stuff about, you can PM me and i'll reply to you on there rather than it being public for everyone to see. If it's something on bv your concerned about and need someone to talk to about then you can just post it on here and i will try to reply asap when i see it.
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Post by AmyPie on Thu Aug 02, 2012 1:32 am

This is about bearville playground (not people, just the fact that its a 'chat room')
My parents dont really like me chatting on the computer, because it could be a criminal that tracks me down and kidnaps me.My parents are super close to finding out, becuase they check my history sometimes, and my sister says "if you dont do what i say, i tell mom about bearville playground". i am afraid that one day i will forget to delete this site off my history and my parents will check it. I really dont want to quit this becuaase i have really good friends on here.
Please tell me a way to keep this forum a secret,
Amy~
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Post by NOMNOMNOMNOMNOM on Thu Aug 02, 2012 2:05 am

Last year, I did something VERY bad which I don't want to talk about and my mum and dad banned me from social-networking sites. All my friends are excluding me from their gangs because I'm not allowed on the sites and telling me to make fake accounts but I don't want to go behind my familys back and especially don't want to tell anyone about why I'm banned. What can I do?
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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 2:44 am

Amy: Well, you might not want to do the first idea, but an idea of what you can do is try talking to your parents, telling them that you aren't giving out any personal info or anything to have people track you down. If they still don't want you playing BP after that, you should just tell your sister you quit BP so she won't continue threatening to tell your parents. Or maybe you can just talk to your sister about it and tell her the same thing you told your parents. I hope this helped you, and if it didn't you can try talking to me more about it and i'll see what i can do to help you :] And Tabitha, the same thing happened to me this year with fb! But before i start giving any advice, just because you aren't allowed to go on social networking sites doesn't give your friends any reasons to disclude you and tell you that you should go behind your parents' backs. What I think you should do is do something responsible and something to make your parents' happy, like clean the dishes or, help out cleaning the house or something like that. Something to prove to your parents that you're responsible enough to be trusted to go on social networking sites. Or, if that doesn't help and you don't like that idea, what you can also do is try talking to them about it, like tell them how you're sorry for what you did and you can prove to them that you can be trusted to go on one of those sites. But don't listen to your friends, they have no right to be telling you to make accounts under a fake name. That isn't really any of their concern, and if they'really true friends, they should be able to respect that you can't talk to them on their sites, and if they ask you why, just tell them you got grounded for something you really don't want to talk about, and if they're your friends, i'm sure they'll understand. But if they aren't treating you like a friend, I think you should try a different group of friends. I hope this helped! If you still need help, you can post again and i'll be happy to help
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Post by ☾яαωя•ιтѕ•ѕтαяℓα☽ on Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:01 am

ok, well every year in school, the first half of the year is great! but the second half not so much. i'm going into the 6th grade, which means an all new school, and i'm kinda glad! but last year i hung out with 3 girls, and like i said, no problems the first half, but the second half the started ignoring me, being mean to me, making faces at me, and i was thinking, i'm not the slimmest girl in school, but i'm not fat! my mom says i'm slim, and i am more slim then last year at this time, but anyway, i asked my mom why she thought they were being mean, she said it was NOT because i'm not as slim as them (and one of the girls were bigger than me so), and i don't have straight hair, i have curly, and my mom said not because of that, she said it's not because of my body image. i tried being nice, and they were still mean. how do i make new friends at my school when everyone is mean to you? and before you say, stand up to them, that would have made it worse with these girls. i have not moved, but in out district, when you go into 6th grade, you go to middle school. so what do i do to make sure no one is mean to me? i am not really friends with those girls anymore, i just want to prevent that from happening again. thanks
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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:16 am

Okay when I saw this post, I was like ?! Because the same EXACT thing happened to me in 5th grade going into 6th grade. I had these 3 friends and in the beginning of the year they were all nice to me and stuff but towards the end, they just started being mean to me and excluding me from their group, like they made up all these handshakes and they're like 'Jordyn, this is a handshake we made but you can't do it with us since only BFFs can do it' (My names Jordyn) But yeah, they made me feel left out and were mean to me for NO reason. So I can relate to how you feel, but the next year, in 6th grade, what I did was find a new group of friends, on the first day of middle school at lunch, I saw a table of girls who seemed nice and I just introduced myself to them. I think you should do the same thing, I mean people who treat you like that for no reason aren't true friends and you DON'T deserve it. I met most of my good friends in middle school and I still talk to 1 of the girls from 5th grade but as the years gone by, they became nicer, and more mature. I think you should just find a group of friends who understand you, and aren't fake or mean to you for no reason. Your going to love middle school, trust me! This year is my last year of middle school. But yeah, I honestly think you should just find a new group of friends, it's not worth your time trying to be friends with people who are just going to be mean to you for no reason. I hope this helped!
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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:23 am

Sorry to double post but, I just want people to see this,if anyone else needs advice, i'm happy to help! I wanna be a guidance counsler when I grow up.. Lol so yeah! I'm willing to give lots of advice (:
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Post by Mrs.Hutcherson<3 on Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:25 am

How do i convice my parents to get me a guinea pig when i already have 2 dogs?
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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:31 am

Zoey: Omg! I had like the same situation a couple months ago when i was trying to convince my parents to get me a hamster since I already have a dog. What you can do is tell them that they don't have to do any work at all and you'll promise to feed it, refill its water every day, clean the cage everyday, etc. Or you can just convince them how cheap it is to get a guinea pig because i'm pretty sure they're cheap? Right? I think.. well anyway if those 2 options don't work, do something like clean up around the house, or something responsible for no reason just to prove your responsible enough to take care of an animal. It worked for me convincing my parents to get me a hamster so I hope it works for you! Hope I helped! -Justice
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Post by Mrs.Hutcherson<3 on Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:32 am

Thanks justice i am going to tell them that right now Very Happy
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Post by ☾яαωя•ιтѕ•ѕтαяℓα☽ on Thu Aug 02, 2012 8:09 am

Thx justice, and at my dance studio i hang out with the 3 best girls in the world! Too bad they dont go to my school!!!!Sad
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Post by AmyPie on Thu Aug 02, 2012 12:27 pm

Thanks for the help on the other problem Smile
Now i have a new issue Sad
i am going back to school soon, and i am not popular at all, my other to friends are pretty popular and outgoing, but i am really shy and sorta like, Different. I dont like all those things in style. I never fit in with anybody. I imagine the first day of school, at lunch (the only break time), my friends asking if they can go sit with the popular kids, and me just standing there saying "uh.. sure, but imma stay here at this table" then they would just leave me, then i would sit alone with the annoying gross dudes.
I have no idea how to make more friends and still be myself Sad
And also, how can i fit with my friends?


Btw admins should make you the forums "guidance cousouler" Smile
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Post by Justice♥boo on Thu Aug 02, 2012 1:01 pm

Well, what I think you should do is exactly what I said to Starla, make new friends! I know you don't wanna hear this but if your friends are going to leave you sitting alone just to be with the popular kids, that's betraying your friendship. What I think you should do is be the first person to introduce yourself to new people! I mean don't you want friends who won't leave you to sit with 'popular' people and sit with you everyday at lunch, and have your back. True friends will always have your back. And if you don't wanna do that, [which is okay because finding a new group of friends might feel weird] I think it would be best if you try talking to your friends telling them how you feel about the whole situation. But just remember this, DON'T change for anyone. Be yourself, i'm sure your perfect just the way you are. But i'm sure talking to your friends might help, but if it doesn't, which it should then I really think it isn't the best idea wasting your time trying to be friends with people who just want to be popular. If they were really your friends, they would choose friendship over popularity. All you have to say is "Sometimes I feel different from you guys and I just don't feel like I fit in, you guys wouldn't leave me sitting alone right?" Or something along those lines. I hope I helped! And please, if you need anymore advice or to talk, I'm here always! :)xJustice
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Post by Justice♥boo on Fri Aug 03, 2012 1:06 am

What I think you should do is just tell her how you feel, I mean you don't have to stand up to her, just try talking to her about it. I'm sure if you tell her how it bothers you when she laughs at you, she won't be offended or anything. But what I also think you should do is, next time she goes to laugh at you just ask her like. 'Why are you laughing?' And if she says she thinks your a tomboy just be like 'Why? Just because I hang out with boys you assume i'm a tomboy?' I mean i'm sure her friends won't say something to you if you said that. Like what would they say? Your proving a point to her, you know? Lol. And about middle school, I'm sure you'll make plenty of friends, like I said in the other advice, just introduce yourself to a good group of people. It's not about fitting in or being cool, just be yourself and you'll do fine. I hope I helped! If you need anymore advice, I'm happy to help! (:
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Post by Eden on Fri Aug 03, 2012 1:31 am

Thanks so much for your advice, Justice [:
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Post by Justice♥boo on Fri Aug 31, 2012 5:55 am

Anymore advice? C:
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Post by anika_ on Fri Aug 31, 2012 7:10 am

I like all the advice you give to people its soo straight forward and down-earth(:
Anyway...LOL...
I have 2 friends who are constantly fighting with each other,
one minute there friends and the next there furious with each other.Its soo annoying that sometimes my friend ends up crying or we all end up siding against each other.Is there any advice you can give to resolve this?:c
Thanks
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